This morning I reviewed Family Likeness by Caitlin Davies; I was especially pleased to be chosen to read a copy in return for an honest review as in my opinion she is an excellent writer and daughter of two authors who I hold in high esteem.
Margaret Forster wrote what is probably my favourite book of all time – ‘Shadow Baby’ which shares the theme of abandoned children with ‘Family Likeness’
Shadow Baby by Margaret Forster
My rating: 5 of 5 stars
This is one of my favourite books of all times and one of the few that I re-read for sheer pleasure from time to time
The story is about two girls adopted 100 years apart, the reasons why they were adopted and how they and their mothers reacted to adoption.
During the book we get to know the girls and their mothers through their own narratives. This is an emotional story and I often think of the real Evie’s that lived in the shadows because of the time and circumstance of their birth. I recommend reading Hidden Lives: A Family Memoir which includes the Margret Forster’s family history, including that of her Grandmother who wouldn’t speak of her early life at all. I am sure this wonderful book is the author’s way of revealing some of what may have led to those secrets.
You can’t do better than this for a dual time tale with a hefty dollop of social history included.
While Hunter Davies was our family companion with his Flossie Teacake adventures which kept us amused during long car journeys when my children were small. These books were entertaining enough for this weary parent to stomach many a repeat on the old tape cassette player and dear old Flossie is remembered fondly in our house more than 15 years on.
Earlier this year Margaret Forster published another fantastic book
and I would also recommend
Isa and May by Margaret Forster
My rating: 5 of 5 stars
I put off buying this as although [[ASIN:0140258361 Shadow Baby]] is my favourite book of all time, the last couple of Margaret Forster’s books didn’t hit the same mark as far as I’m concerned.
This book although really plays to the authors exceptional skill in writing about family relationships both those that work and those that don’t. The characters were all likeable, especially both Grandmother’s who though totally different had both contributed and been involved in Isamays life. I love the way the different relationships including the natural frustrations that occur in family life are described.
Isamays dissertation on other Grandmothers nicely interjects the main story and as it is a dissertation does so in a natural and readable way.
I will read this again I’m sure and have another excuse to remember my Grandmother who helped shape my life
and the book that I believe lead to Shadow Baby which is a fascinating look at social history, particularly that of women
Hidden Lives: A Family Memoir by Margaret Forster
My rating: 5 of 5 stars
This personal biography by Margaret Forster is a fascinating exploration of how lives of women have changed over a period of 100 plus years starting in the 1870’s.
Margaret Ann was the author’s grandmother, orphaned at the age of 2, her early life is a mystery. Margaret Ann simply doesn’t give any details away of her early life, all that her family knew was from 1893 onwards. Why was Margaret Ann so keen to conceal her early life? We also meet Lilian, Margaret’s mother a working class woman living in Carlisle, the author depicts a woman who yearns for the better things in life. There are moving scenes where the family try to locate a cafe on holiday which will meet Lilian’s expectations. The interaction of each of the characters is moving and honest. Lilian wonders at Margaret’s life as a wife and mother, the difference domestic appliances made to a housewife’s day etc.
This book clearly presents social history in an interesting and personal way but it also reminds us of the changes to woman’s role in society as a whole. It is a book that makes you think about women’s expectations, in many ways I found Lilian’s story the hardest to read as she clearly wanted more from her life was born just a little too early!
The research for this book clearly led into the novel Shadow Baby which is my favourite book of all time, I would recommend both these for anyone interested in the life of a working class woman.
Thank you for the reviews. These are books I would have never thought of reading. Now, however, I think I will make it a point to do just that.
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Thank you so much – you have just made my day. I hope you find some that you enjoy
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Thanks for highlighting these – I’m an avid reader but sometimes don’t know where to start when I go into bookshops!
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Thank you. I’m the same it is good to have other people pointing out something new and I’ve got loads from this post today.
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Thanks for the review. I added the title to my reading list, which is every-growing. Reading and writing are always battling it out for my time.
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I do hope you like it – the more I read what everyone else is reading I add daily to the list of books I want to read.
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